Your Commitment Ceremony

It is your ceremony, and your day.  Regardless of the reason that you have chosen to have a non-legal ceremony, I firmly believe that, by making a public pledge of sincere and serious commitment to one another in the presence of friends and loved ones, your are making an investment in your relationship and an investment in memories that will last for the rest of your lives. How we achieve that is by working together to create a ceremony that is totally and completely you.

• My focus is you, your ceremony, your story. The kind of magic that achieves this doesn't just happen. This is why I work very hard to gather information about what you would like for every aspect of the ceremony from you, together with the information that helps me make the ceremony totally unique.
• I custom-create every ceremony specifically for the couple, so your ceremony will be created with your vision for your ceremony in mind. 
• Your ceremony will include exclusive contemporary elements that none of your guests will have seen at another wedding.
  
• Your ceremony won't include tired old rituals or long-winded readings used as fillers, a blow-by-blow account of how you met and the daily details of your relationship, or presumptuous and boring lectures.
• Regardless of whether you are a heterosexual or same-sex couple, the ceremony will not incorporate outdated gender stereotypes.  Equality is the key principle.
  
• Your ceremony will be performed with warmth and friendliness so that your guests are not only included, they are entertained.
  

How do I achieve all of that?

• Through extensive knowledge of ritual and ceremony, together with cultural traditions
  
• Through thoughtful and in-depth examination of every aspect of the traditional marriage ceremony and of other types of ceremonies
• Through a natural bent towards creativity and pushing the envelope
• Through the wisdom that comes with maturity and life-experience

All of the above, together with my track record of 1300+ ceremonies, allows me to confidently guarantee that your ceremony will not be a ho-hum experience. My aim is that no-one looks at their watch, and everyone goes away saying "that was so them...." so I take a very creative approach to fusing tradition with your personal style to create a contemporary personal ceremony.

And what will all of this cost?

I am aware that times are tough, and that every couple is different, so I offer a range of ceremony styles at fees that reflect the amount of time that each demands of me. I do, however, apply the same high level of skill and dedication to every ceremony.